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A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he a sk ed his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
一对夫妇结了婚十一年，终于喜获一个儿子，他们是一对很恩爱的夫妻，儿子也遗传了他们最好的基因，就是有对漂亮的眼睛，眼睛就像一对宝石一样。当儿子在两岁大时，有一天早上，丈夫看见了一罐含有毒药的瓶子开着，因为就快要迟到的原故，他只好叫妻子把罐子的盖盖好然后把它放到橱柜里，而妻子因为在厨房忙着的关系，根本就把这件事给忘了。

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle, fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital, and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
当儿子看见那瓶罐子，就被罐子里含有颜色的药水给迷住，然后就把里面的毒药给喝完了。因为是毒药，所以对大人来说算是小剂量，但对小孩就不是。当小孩倒下时，妈妈发现了，就赶紧把他送到医院去，最终还是救不回他。妈妈感到很震惊。她感到很害怕，不知该怎么面对她的丈夫。当烦乱的丈夫去到医院看见了死去的儿子，再看看他的太太，他只对太太说出五个字。Questions:
问题：1. What were the five words?
哪五个字呢？
2. What is the i mp lication of this story?这故事的涵义是甚么呢？Scroll down to read...继续往下看...


Answer:答案：

The husband just said 'I’m forever with you, Darling.' The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sy mp athy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.
'A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.' Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiving, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
丈夫只说了“亲爱的，我会永远跟你在一起。”丈夫自己也意想不到他自己会有这么前摄的行为。孩子死了。他也没办法挽救回他的生命，他也没必要再去责怪他的妻子。其外，如果当时他马上把罐子拿起放到高处，那就不会发生这样的事了。谁也不能责怪谁。因为她也失去了她唯一的一个儿子。她现在最需要的是可以得到丈夫的安慰跟同情。现在他只能给她这些了。

如果大家都能把生命透视成这样的原理，哪世界就可以减少很多问题。在你的生命道路上踏上你的第一步就是，“放下你所有的妒嫉，自私跟恐惧。哪你就会发现到每一样事情不是你想象中的那么困难。”

Moral of The Story故事的道理

This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in a sk ing who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.
这是个很有意义的故事。有时我们终是喜欢花时间在讨论事情该由谁来负责，该由谁来责备，不论在感情上，在工作上或在人际关系上。往往这些都造成了我们已忽略了人与人之间该存有的温暖。

希望大家看完了这篇故事有所感触，就是原谅他人的过错，胜过于你自己的好胜心，人要懂得互相体谅，不要事事都把自己看得太重，心胸应该宽容大量，恨跟讨厌一个人是一件很痛苦的事，为何不把一切放下，从新开始你们的一段新友谊跟人生呢？

祝大家有个愉快的人生旅程。